A Personal Q&A: 14 Fun, Deep, and Unexpected Facts About Me

Inspired by the 36 Questions to fall in love with a stranger, I was inspired to curate a handful of them and share my personal experiences with you, so we can get to know each other a little bit better.

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Q1 : Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?

This one has always been a hard one for me to answer I can’t think of a specific person more so I think of someone who embodies certain qualities. I’d love to have someone as a dinner guest who has succeeded in building a financially stable, peaceful life all while being themselves unapologetically; Someone that never lost their humility or grounded-ness in the process. I’d love to interview this type of person, to hear their life story, their challenges, how they persevered, and how they were able to build this kind of life without getting pressured by the expectations of the world. This is what I strive to help women accomplish in their lives – an authentic, vibrant life. For that we remove blockages that allow them to express themselves fully and authentically ( verbally, creatively, mentally) so that they feel empowered to realize or uplevel their dream life – personally, professionally or other.

Q2 : Would you like to be famous? In what way?

Not famous, but I’d like to be known. I’m not the type of person that likes to be the center of attention in large group settings; I enjoy more of the intimate one-on-one experiences. My mission in life is to be someone who can simply touch people in ways that make their lives better. I’f that’s what I come to be known for then I’ve fulfilled one of my purposes.

Q3 : Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?

Communication is one of my top values. I think for important conversations yes (i.e. job interviews, conversations about tough subjects with family members, friends, significant others). If we could all learn to communicate and speak each other’s languages a lot of the misunderstandings and disagreements could be avoided; so in those types of conversations I want to make sure that I articulate myself the best that I can. Communication is really the key to connection. In helping women heal their blockages of expression they will be better equipped to understand themselves and show up and communicate more authentically in the world.

Q4: When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?

This morning, and almost every single day. I love music; it’s actually a type of therapy for me to work through my emotions and regulate them. Music just really sets the mood for me however I need it. My music library is really broad, there are really few genres that I don’t like. I’m also the type of person that has a musical mind; we could be having a conversation and one word can just trigger the memory of a song and I’ll just start singing that song—it’s so much fun when it happens with other people. Music is a creative expression that connects us all – because it is felt. I think creativity overall is a great healing tool. It’s important that we all find a creative outlet that fits our style so that we can release and process our emotions in a healthy way.

Q5: If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?

I’d have to go with the body of a 30-year-old. I say body because the mind accumulates so much wisdom throughout your life. The best combo would be 30-year-old body with 90-year-old mind because I would have the wisdom of knowing what I value, doing the things that matter the most to me, and I’d have the energy to do them.

Q6 : Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?

Think this all depends on what age I think I will die. I’d have to say either of just natural old age, or, if not age dependent, probably doing something adventurous.

Q7 : For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

Externally, I have to say having a loving family and network of close friends that have always been supportive and real. Internally, I’m grateful for my natural positivity and optimism in life. Just like any other trait, not everyone is born with this mindset, and I think it’s made a big difference in how I show up and have faith in life no matter what the circumstances are. I’ve always believed that negative circumstances or feelings are temporary and that things always get better.

Q8 : If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be? 

I think it would just be wishing that my parents would have encouraged me to pursue or get into more extracurricular activities during my childhood –just like they put my brothers into sports. I grew up a very quiet, reserved person, and the activities that I did pursue were very minimal and more on the intellectual side (i.e. the yearbook club). I think if I would have explored more creative extracurricular activities, I would have discovered the creative side of me sooner than later – and pursued them sooner. However, life unfolds exactly as it should. We are all born with unique lessons to learn and no matter when they happen, our job is simply to take the learnings and keep moving. So although I would have preferred the above, the discovery of this part of myself still happened so I am grateful that the experience occurred overall.

Q9 : If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?

Interesting question. This changes day by day. I think throughout my healing and self-discovery process I’ve unlocked and discovered certain traits and qualities that I once wished that I could have embodied that I now do have ( i.e. empathy, outspoken, honesty, patience). At the moment, if I could wake up tomorrow and have gained a new quality or ability it would have to be mastering the art of communication – verbal and written. To me that includes being able to be more vulnerable in what I share, to articulate it with clarity and precision so that I can foster even deeper connections – personally, professionally, on every and any level really.

Q10 :If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?

Contrary to what my younger self would say, at this age, I’d prefer not to know anything; it would take the fun out this adventure that we call life. Part of the fun of living is the self-discovery process. The journey leading us back to self-love, community, and connection. There’s a quote that I love by Elizabeth Gilbert that says,

“ One of the oldest and most generous tricks the universe plays on us human beings is burying strange jewels deep within us all, and then to stand back and see if we can find them.”

If I had to pick, I’d would be to know what gift (s) I have brought into this life that will help change the world only so that I could act on them sooner than later and start making a difference in the world.

Q11 :What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?

I still struggle with this question. It’s so easy for me to see how far others have come, and to praise them, and remind them of what they’ve accomplished, but when it comes to myself, I hold such a high expectation to be at another person’s level – which always happens to be the next level above whatever I am currently accomplishing – which is like a hamster running on a wheel.

One piece of advice that really resonated with me is: “Set a goal and celebrate at 90%, don’t wait until 100%.” I’ve embraced this philosophy in my coaching and therapy to help women not only set goals but also to learn to recognize and celebrate their progress along the way. My goal is to help women foster a genuine sense of accomplishment, fulfillment, discipline, and self-trust—reinforcing that they hold immense power and potential to achieve whatever they set their minds to. And that true growth happens in every small win.

My greatest accomplishment has been continuing to remaining true to myself. I grew up living a life dictated by what society, family, and friends expected, but I never really stopped to feel and think what I really wanted and needed. Through my healing, I’ve learned to set boundaries that have allowed me to protect my peace, and see, hear and feel my truth so that I can craft and build a life that feels authentic to who I am. This is also something that I am passionate about in my business – helping women find the strength to be able to express their needs in what they value, and uphold those boundaries.  

Q12 : How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?

My relationship with my mother has always been loving, though we hold different perspectives in life. Through our dynamic and deepening of our connection, I’ve learned many things, and she is also one the reasons that I am so passionate about helping other women.

One, I’ve learned to be a better listener—not just to respond, but to truly understand different perspectives. This has helped me to connect more deeply – not just with her- but with others also.

Two, I’ve come to deeply appreciate my mother’s stories about her upbringing—the challenges she has faced, both past and present— as well as stories of my grandmother and the women before. The revelation of the collective struggles my women in my family have endured have been profound because each one has contained valuable insights that have helped me understand myself on a deeper level - and how those struggles have energetically been passed down into me. Struggles in lack of confidence and not being ablate connect with our inner child spirit - among others.

These stories have been powerful proof that we don’t just inherit physical traits from our ancestors—we also inherit emotional and mental patterns, including trauma. Recognizing this has allowed me to cultivate greater compassion and grace for myself. I now understand that while I did not create these burdens, I have the power and choice to heal them—for myself and for future generations.

This is the same space I hold for my clients in my coaching and therapy: a space that encourages compassion and grace for ourselves.

Three, hearing my mother say that she thinks it’s too late for her to pursue anything new in life has made me sad - because I know that beneath those words and limiting beliefs is a woman who never got a chance to discover who she was and is outside of the hats of being a daughter, a sister, a friend, a wife and then a mother. That same sadness has only further propelled my passion for helping women break through their mental and emotional baggage so they can fully step into their highest potential and live the most fulfilling life that they can have. Each of us carry unique gifts meant to be shared with the world, and I refuse to let trauma, baggage, or limiting beliefs hold us back from expressing the magic within us.

Q13: When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?

I cried the morning of writing this post—during my meditation. I wasn’t consciously aware of why, but I could feel a buildup of energy that needed to be released. I’ll admit, I’ve never liked crying—at least not the ‘not-so-happy’ kind. My instinctive reaction has always been to apologize, followed by an internal, 'Ugh, why am I crying? Now I can’t even speak clearly!' Haha.

 But through my healing journey, I’ve learned that crying is essential. It’s how our bodies release energy that no longer serves us. It also invites deeper reflection, helping us uncover the reasons behind our triggers – which are always deeper than surface-level answers that reside in the unconscious. Emotions aren’t our enemy. When negative emotions arise, it’s our inner wounded child signaling that it doesn’t feel safe—it’s asking for help. Negative emotions aren’t meant to hinder us; they guide us toward greater alignment with our true selves. That’s why I no longer resist crying. I allow myself to feel through it, knowing that on the other side, I always find clarity and peace.

Q14 : What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?

Nothing. I’ve learned that we need to learn to laugh in the face of our own struggles and challenges because that is a way that we build strength to endure anything that life throws at us.  

And I know that on the other side of my shadows, ego, and fear only truth, peace and love await me.

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